Impact on wellbeing
We observed significant impacts on physical and mental health, relationships and work.
Two-thirds said that the perpetrator's coercive and controlling behaviours had a fair amount or great deal of an impact on their physical health and wellbeing, 82% said it had a fair amount or a great deal of an impact on their mental health and wellbeing, over two-thirds (67%) said that it had a fair amount or a great deal of an impact on their relationships with friends and family, and around half (49%) said that it had a fair amount or a great deal of an impact on their jobs.
Qualitative responses were coded by StepChange, not by YouGov, depression/low mood was the most commonly cited impact, with women citing that the coerced debts had made them feel depressed with slightly more frequency than men. Stress was the second most commonly cited impact, with men reporting this slightly more often than women.
One female respondent wrote: “My stress levels increased whilst trying to juggle money around, thinking I could cover debt and have a bit left over, but I didn't.” At its most extreme, some respondents cited mental or nervous breakdowns (which was more common among male respondents than women) self-harm behaviours and suicidal ideation.
One male respondent wrote: “I became very depressed. For the first time in my life, I had violent and suicidal thoughts, and isolated myself from friends and family.”
A stark finding from these responses was how frequently respondents cited multiple different psychological, physical, relational and work-related impacts co-occurring, describing how they combined in ways which, in isolation would be life limiting, but which, when combined, had the power to dramatically alter every aspect of a victim-survivor’s life.
For example, one female respondent wrote: “I stopped going out, seeing family and doing my hobbies. I slept badly. I was very anxious. I would make him angry if I questioned any financial matters, then I got the silent treatment for days or weeks. I was always on edge. I was pressured to leave work cos ‘he needed me to help with his business’; then he said I wasn’t needed. I became depressed and lost a lot of weight. I lost my confidence. I became very isolated.”
This was a common experience for victim-survivors, as they wrote about their experience of coerced debt creating financial stress, anxiety and worry, leading to significant psychological distress, poor sleep, often appetite changes, diminished self-esteem and self-confidence, and a cycle of isolation. Indeed, as one male respondent put it, his experience “became all-consuming” and meant that his “ability to focus or think about anything else was virtually 0%.”
In a similar vein, one victim-survivor wrote: “Her needs dominated every second of my day and every ounce of my brainpower, so I had no resources left for anything else. I became absent from my family's life for a few years. I felt like I was carrying around a massive, heavy secret nobody could understand and I had nobody I could talk to about. I couldn't connect with others, even though I really needed a friend.”
The stress and anxiety of the coerced debts were also commonly cited as leading to exacerbated physical ill-health, and this was much more commonly cited among women than men, which is consistent with research into the gendered nature of psychosomatization.xxii
For example, one female respondent wrote that “The stress caused flare ups with my asthma and psoriasis” and another wrote that “stress caused a recurring illness to flare and I had to arrange more overtime with work to stay on top of bills.”
In addition to impacts on victim-survivors physical and mental wellbeing, many respondents also discussed the impact of their experiences on their work lives. Many talked about having impaired concentration or focus, with half going on to say that this impacted their work.
One female respondent wrote: “It put me under a lot of stress and worry. It made me feel stupid. It made me feel really sad and worthless. It made me paranoid and insecure. All of these things made me lose focus at work and made me feel too bad to socialise.”
Some had to take time off work as a result of the psychological impacts of coerced debt, and this was equally felt among women and men. Others, meanwhile, stated that they had to take on more hours at work to try to cover their debts – only female respondents cited this. One wrote: “I struggled to pay for parking at work and couldn’t join in on social things, in my work and personal life.”
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Code
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Count (all)
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Count (Male)
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Count (Female)
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|
Depression/low mood
|
56
|
25
|
31
|
|
Stress
|
54
|
30
|
24
|
|
Anxiety
|
42
|
17
|
25
|
|
Worry
|
33
|
20
|
13
|
|
Impact on sleep
|
22
|
12
|
10
|
|
Diminished confidence/self-worth
|
22
|
7
|
15
|
|
Impaired concentration or focus
|
18
|
9
|
9
|
|
Feelings of isolation
|
20
|
5
|
15
|
|
Weight or appetite changes
|
14
|
6
|
8
|
|
Feeling withdrawn
|
14
|
4
|
10
|
|
Suicidal ideation/thoughts
|
14
|
8
|
6
|
|
Psychosomatic impacts, i.e. physical health symptoms deriving from orexacerbatedfrom mental ill health
|
11
|
2
|
9
|
|
PTSD diagnosis
|
9
|
1
|
8
|
|
Impact on work – struggling to focus/concentrate
|
9
|
6
|
3
|
|
Time off work
|
8
|
4
|
4
|
|
Impact on socialising
|
8
|
5
|
3
|
|
Having to take on more hours at work
|
4
|
0
|
4
|
|
Feelings of shame
|
7
|
1
|
6
|
|
Strugglingto afford essentials
|
6
|
2
|
4
|
|
Feeling sad/unhappy/upset
|
6
|
3
|
3
|
|
Panic, panic attacks
|
5
|
1
|
4
|
|
Feelings of fear
|
5
|
2
|
3
|
|
Feeling tired/fatigued/drained
|
5
|
2
|
3
|
|
Feeling useless and/or stupid
|
5
|
1
|
4
|
|
Impact on children
|
4
|
1
|
3
|
|
Mental/nervous breakdown
|
4
|
3
|
1
|
|
Self-harming behaviours
|
3
|
1
|
2
|
|
Alcohol/drug addiction
|
2
|
1
|
1
|
|
A sense of a loss of trust and/or trust issues
|
2
|
0
|
2
|
|
Feeling annoyed
|
2
|
1
|
1
|
|
Feelings of anger
|
2
|
1
|
1
|
|
Feelings of helplessness
|
1
|
0
|
1
|
|
Feeling unsafe
|
1
|
0
|
1
|