To help to save money and keep your debts under control, you need a good understanding of your income and spending.
By putting together a budget, you create a structure that'll help you manage your finances. However, it can only do this if it's an accurate reflection of your day-to-day life.
Being less confident with money can also make keeping to the budget more difficult. Let’s take a look at why you may be struggling to budget, and how to overcome your worries so you make budgeting a success.
1) Don't make big sacrifices in an effort to make your budget ‘work’
When budgeting, people often do it to see their financial situation improve quickly. For example, they may want to put savings aside for an emergency or pay off a debt. To help, they may decide to drastically cut back on how much they spend on food, clothing and other necessities so they can use that money elsewhere.
While the intention's good, this isn't sustainable. Your living costs are just as important as your household bills. You must always make sure you have enough money to cover them each month. You can’t master your finances if you’re getting ill because you’re not eating properly. You need clothes that keep you warm or make you feel confident during a job interview.
Take care of yourself first. Following a budget over time will help you slowly (but surely) achieve your financial goals.
2) Don't set up a budget that leaves no room for what makes you happy
No matter how much debt you're dealing with, your budget should include events you can enjoy or look forward to. This could be anything from attending a sporting fixture to visiting family and friends.
If you don't have something to look forward to, you might lose motivation to stick to your budget. Finding a balance between saving money and enjoying life is key.
Take a look at what you spend each month, and think about what truly makes you happy. If it’s going to a music festival once a year, or treating yourself to a new pair of shoes every six months, then set a bit of money aside each month to cover these expenses. Remember: you're not expected to deprive yourself unnecessarily while budgeting.
3) Have a financial goal to work towards
If you don't have a 'big financial goal' right now, consider putting money aside for an emergency. What counts as an emergency is up to you, but unexpected expenses happen to most people eventually. Putting money aside now can help you recover more quickly.
Perhaps there is a financial goal to work towards, but you haven't figured it out yet. That's okay. Take some time to think about what you want to achieve in the future. For example:
- Do you want to go travelling?
- Do you want to move home?
- Is there a chance you might have or adopt a child?
All of these life events cost money. As with emergencies, it's good to be prepared.
4) Talk to your partner about budgeting
It can be frustrating when you’re trying to be more money-savvy but your significant other doesn’t want to follow a budget.
Talk with them and find out why they don't feel they can use a budget:
- Did they try budgeting in the past and find it didn't work?
- Do they have a lot of stress around money?
- Do they find it easier to ignore their problems?
No one likes to feel 'forced' into doing something. However, if you share your thoughts around financial goals with your partner, they may feel less pressured and start to see what you're trying to achieve.
In the meantime, try making stealthy savings wherever you can. For example:
- Are you in charge of the big food shop? Try switching one or two items to cheaper alternatives each time. Many own brands are just as good as the premium brands
- Do you have children? Suggest free activities that you could do as a family. Your local council website should list free and upcoming events happening near you
- When was the last time you switched utilities? You can save money by regularly switching your providers. If you like your current service, you can look for cheaper deals elsewhere and then ask your current provider if they can offer you the same or better